Tuesday, December 9, 2008

He is Here!


So things didn't go quite as planned(do they ever) Sunday November 30 Robin and I went to the hospital to do a non stress test, and I had had a headache that wouldn't go away all night. So when I got to the hospital they decided to start me. So Sunday was spent in labor. I was wimpy and got and epidural. That night the nurses would come in and check me every hour. They decided to put me on some oxygen because the baby wasn't doing exactly what they thought he should be.
The next morning The Dr. came in and broke my water and things were coming along nicely. I told Robin to run down and get hims something to eat before anything happens, then called my mom to give her an update of what was going on. while I was on the phone with my mom the nurse came in and told me I need to get my oxygen back on the baby wasn't doing as well as they wanted him ot be doing. Then for some reason she wanted to check me again. I had just been checked and the DR. had just put a monitor on the baby to better read the baby's heart. When she checked me the baby's cord was coming first. I can't remember what it is called. Things from then on happened so fast.
The nurse called for more nursed and told them to go and get the dr. then the next thing I Knew I was being wheeled down the hall for an emergency C section. I called Robin on my cell phone as we were leaving the room to tell him he needed to hurry back up and quickly let him know of the plans.
Things in the operating room were a blur. things were going so fast and things all kind of blurred together. Robin couldn't come in because they were going to put me totally under. I didn't get put all the way under,and robin waited in NICU for our little boy.
I really don't know how much time it took to get him out but it didn't seem like all that long. Soon I heard a baby crying and I got a quick glace of him as they lifted him over the curtain. I just kept praying that the baby was going to be alright and that Robin was going to be okay as well.
So.... Bennett Wayne Markham was born on December 1, three weeks early at 8:08 Am and weighed 8 lbs 4 oz and was 20 inches long. We were so happy he was doing so well. He lungs were developed and never needed help breathing
A few hours later I was in so much pain I couldn't even keep ice down. Things slowly got worse. The Dr. said that some peoples guts are just really sensitive and don't like being touched. My guts don't like it at all they were having a hard time starting up again. So in order for them to heal I needed to get a tube in my nose that went down into my stomach to suck everything out. To give my body some time to heal. All I could do was suck on some ice and swab my mouth with water so it wouldn't get to dry. Another thing they have you do to get better is walking and alot of it. Everyday I could go a little further. I set goals to make it to the nursery so I could hold Bennett. This was the best thing for me. Some days I only made it long enough to the nursery to kiss him and head back because I was in so much pain.
We got to come home yesterday! I am still healing and learning how to handle two kids, and not being able to move how your used to. Kenidee loves having her brother home so far. I can tell it will be a struggle, but she is going to be a great big sister.
I am so thankful for prayers and fasting of family members. I am thankful that I have a husband and a father who have the priesthood, and for a mother who puts her life on hold to take care of me and my daughter. There is no better feeling then knowing that your child is being taken care of. I never had to worry about Kenidee through this whole thing.
Sorry the pictures got all mixed up and I don't want to take the time to fix them. :)










21 comments:

Kristin and Jay said...

Yay! Congrats! I have been checking every day for an update! He has been here for 8 days and I just found out?! Next baby I need to know before.....I was dying! He is so beautiful and I LOVE the name! How cute is that. I told Jay you named him Bennett and he said "His name is Bennett Bennett?" Hah! I guess you will always be Stephanie Bennett to him =). Congrats again and I am glad everything turned out alright. I hope you are feeling back to normal soon! Love ya!

Kristin and Jay said...

Shoot I spelled Stephanie wrong.....I meant Stephenie. Sorry, I hate when people spell my name wrong =)

Trenda said...

Congrats! He is beautiful! I've been wondering too what was going on with you and the baby. Glad to hear things turned out ok for the baby, sad to hear you had to have a c-section and were/are in so much pain! :( Good luck with everything! We'll have to visit soon. Your in my prayers!

Tiffany said...

YEAH! So glad that things turned out well! He is a beautiful baby! Sad to hear that you are in so much pain, but I guess they say it's worth it?! Love ya!!

Jenn said...

Steph, he is just darling! I totally love his name! When I was pregnant with Chase, I suggested Bennnett to Gary, funny. I am so glad that he was healthy. I am so sorry that you had a rough time, I hope you get feeling better really soon!! Hugs, Jenn!

Alisha said...

Steph-- he is beautiful & I am balling. I'm kind of emotional today anyway but I'm really feeling for you. I'm so glad everything ended up ok but so sad for you that it was so traumatic. I'll call soon, Love ya.

bryan and megan said...

Oh, Steph, he is ADDORABLE!! It's kind of funny, like Kristin, I have been checking your blog every day waiting for some news. I have been thinking about you A LOT also. I am so glad to hear that you are home and doing o.k. But I can't believe that he is already over a week old. CRAZY!! LOVE his name, very cute. I think that he looks a lot like his daddy. Is Robin just lovin' it? You forget how small they are. I guess it is because Oakleigh is 10 months and not so little anymore. It goes fast.

I need to come see you guys and bring you your pumpkin roll!! I will give you a call. Take it easy and get better. Love ya!

Shannon said...

Congrats! He is adorable! I hope you are feeling a little better! If I lived closer I would be there in a heart beat! I love you!

Rachel Holloway said...

Steph! Congrat!! You are going to be GREAT as soon as you heal--don't you worry! You are a wonderful mom and he is a lucky little boy! LOVE his name--so cute! Can't wait to watch him grow up--

feel better soon!!

Shana Dee said...

OH what a cute name!! Love it!! I'm happy your feeling better or on the way to it. I'd love to name one of my kids my maiden name, but for some reason Brown isn't a good first name. ha ha

Congratulations!!!

Jolyn said...

Congratulations! What a handsome little guy! I'm sorry the delivery wasn't so fun, but I'm glad both you and Bennett are doing well now, and that you are home now with your two cute kids. Congrats.

Mamma Mia said...

Congrats. I've been waiting for you to get well enough to see the newest man! I almost cried when I heard the name. I love it! Take care Markham Fam!

Krystal said...

Congrats, Steph! Little Bennett is adorable. I'm so glad you're home and able to enjoy being with your new little one.

Sarah said...

I'm so glad to here that you are doing better!!! Kim told us kind of what was going on, you are a very strong person!!! He is absolutely adorable, good thing you didn't go longer, he's a big boy. Congrats!

Jensen said...

Cangratulations!!! What a CUTIE!! What a cute name too! I love the picture of Kenidee looking down at him! I think that he looks a lot like Robin in the picture where Robin is holdong him. You have such cute kids!! I hope that you heal soon and that every thing will work out!

Unknown said...

Oh he is such a handsome little guy! Love his name, and I hope you can get as much rest as you can to recover! Your story makes me terrified to have a C section now!! Thanks :) haha We are so happy for the new addition to your family and that he is doing well too!

brittneyboucha said...

Ok so i bawled through almost your whole post. I am so glad you and him made it through safely. He is adorable and one big boy. Good job mamma. What did you do to make him so big and healthy. i need tips. We like the big babies. I am so happy for you. Rest up and feel better.

Cori Hintze said...

Congrats Step! Our little boys are about a month apart! Hope you are doing well! It sounds like you had an ordeal. Take it slow!

Loleen said...

He is super cute, congrats. I hope you continue to heal after that ordeal. Good luck with everything.

Stacey said...

Congrats! It is so nice to have family around to help out. My parents came up the night before we had Daxton to stay with Madisen. He is so cute. If you need anything just let me know I can be up to Rigby really quick. If you want Kenidee (I hope I spelled that right) to come play so your mom can have a break just call.

Our Family said...

What a stinkin cute baby!!! Congratulations Markhams! And welcome Bennett! We sure love you guys and are so happy that you're on the mend! Let me know if you need anything... dinner, a babysitter, painkillers?!?